Sunday, September 4, 2011

Our Last Night In Johannasburg



Our time in Cape Town and the surrounding area was fabulous. We met, and stayed with, our new friend Nick. He and his family live in a “ranch” of sorts outside of Cape Town, and are amazingly dedicated to anything having to do with the health and well being of our planet. Nick seemed to be a never-ending source of information regarding sustainability practices, eco-power, organics, and more. Our time with him left me inspired and curious about knowing and doing more and more and more. We talked a bit about apartheid and Nelson Mandela as well. He shared his experience growing up during this huge change and left me quite inspired with his closing statement that sounded something like this: “me and my generation have actually lived through a peaceful revolution, we know, intrinsically, that social change and evolutionary advancement is possible. We believe we can make a difference, and that the change is happening.”


Smart man.


Thursday morning we headed north to the Cedarburg Mountains and to the towns of Nieutville (sp?) and Malkaraal. Nieutville is the home of the Hiedvelt Cooperative. This cooperative is a group of 64 members who farm Rooibos tea. These farmers have come together in this joint venture to bring their tea to the world in a way that is sustainable, organic, fair trade, and powerful. Their membership is growing every year.


Our hostess for our stay in Malkaraal is one of the co-op members. She is a powerhouse of a woman named Tempest. Her actual given name is Katrina, but she said that since before she could remember her family called her Tempest. She said she wasn’t sure why they called her that, but meeting this woman left no doubt in my mind why her family would think of her as “a violent storm” as the name implies.


Tempest is 63 years young and for most of her life owned little/nothing during the time of apartheid. She is one of nine children and her mother died when she was 8 years old. She began working as a maid or nanny in homes of white people (mainly “old white women”) when she was 13. After the loss of her baby girl, the severe and permanent brain injury of her son, and the death of her “daddy”, she is now a woman who works her own Rooibos tea farm, helps run a collaboratively owned “guest house” they call “Rietjieshuis Eco Lodge”, takes care of her own homestead, and serves as a community member in ways that are far too numerous to mention. She says her life is entirely different now. We spent time sitting around the fire talking about her life, how it has changed, and what she sees for the future of other South African people. She too left me hopeful that things can and do change, and that anything is possible.


Malkaraal, where the Eco Lodge is located, is 30 minutes from the nearest town. It is situated in the wide-open meadows of what is known as the “highveld” (which literally means “open, uncultivated country or grassland in southern Africa”). There are no stores, no gas stations, no post office and not even a church (which I had once been told is what makes a town a town). Instead, it is simply a huge spread out area of simple homesteads. Each homestead has 2 or 3 small, round, brick structures that are made from the local rocks that have been hand cut into brick size chunks, and topped off with hand cut reed from the open meadows for the roof. And this area is, amazingly, the only place on the planet where Rooibos tea is grown.


We arrived, quite coincidentally, during the opening week of South Africa’s famous wildflower season. The meadows are covered in bright, vibrant colors of all shades of yellow, orange, purple and red. There are long winding footpaths that run from each homestead through the meadows, and children roam freely from home to home. It’s no wonder that Tempest says she lives in “heaven on earth”.


Tempest introduced us to other farmers, children, moms, aunts, uncles, and to the man who was one of the founder’s of the Hieveldt Tea Cooperative. Rory and I interviewed Coos Cooperman and his nephew, Gerrie, at the Co-ops “tea court”. This is the facility designed to process and package, in bulk, the rooibos tea generated by all of the members. By the end of the interview I was covered in chill bumps, and for just a moment I had the thought that we were in the presence of true greatness.

While Tempest was the only English speaker at the Eco Lodge, there were two other women who took great care of us, Katrina and Maria. These women cooked our food over the open fire (including fabulous fresh bread), kept us supplied in an endless stream of hot rooibos tea, and chatted on in their native tongue with one another. It was great fun listening to them laugh, watching them play and sing with the baby (Valentino was born on Valentines Day, and is definitely a well loved and plump little boy) and helping them prepare and cook the food we brought (we found out they rarely get broccoli or cauliflower and we loved being able to feed them as well). They basically spent their days with us.


There were 5 boys who hung around as well. Initially, it appeared they didn’t know any English, but once Rory started playing soccer with them, and running around like a kid himself, they seemed to have more English in them than we originally thought. They took Rory and I on a “walk”, and I was surprised when we ended up at ancient Bushman stone paintings that were truly timeless. One of the boys made me a little heart cut from stone and had his mother bring it to me as we were saying goodbye.


We left the lodge at 4 am this morning to catch our return flight from Cape Town to Johannasburg. It was still pitch black out, and I marveled at the size of the sky and the amount of stars. I stood for quite awhile in the absolute silence of the highveld, marveling at the vast ways in which we live, in which we see the world, and in which the world sees us. I am grateful to have had this time touring through a small portion of a country I had once only imagined. And, as is usual, the real thing is oh-so-much-better than my imagination.


(pictures wont post... but you can see em in facebook for now)



Wednesday, August 31, 2011

So much to say, so litle time......



Day 17 (and now it's already day 19) of our South African travels, and this is the first opportunity I’ve had to write. My computer has spent the bulk of the last two weeks tucked neatly away in my bag, as every minute of every day has been fully scheduled. Most days have started at 5:30 a.m., and my head rarely hit the pillow before 10:00 p.m. During the few free times that our fellow travelers had, Rory and I were busy filming with William or others in the group.

Today, we are flying from Jonhannasburg (east side of South Africa), to Cape Town (the south West side of South Africa). The “soul Safari” portion of our travels with William finished this morning with a quick breakfast with many of our traveling companions, and we are now “on our own”. I am excited for the change, and will miss all the folks we’ve spent the last two weeks with. I’m now looking forward to having interactions with some actual South African folks. I’ve gotten to know lot’s about Australians in the past two weeks, but very little about the locals.



We’ve stayed at four different places along the way. 1) The casino-like hotel, 2) Malendelas/Willows Lodge, 3) The Farm (where William was born and grew up), 4) Idube Game Reserve, located in Kruger National Park. This is the largest National Park in the world is situated “next door” to Richard Branson’s outrageously-oppulent Game Reserve for all the fancy/famous folk. We actually flew into the Game Reserve by landing our tiny little 10-seater plane on Richard Brandson’s private air strip.

During our time at Malendelas we loaded into a van with a tour guide for a day of a “cultural tour”. These tours are planned based on whatever is going on that day in the area. On this particular day we visited a Chief’s homestead where a group of girls and women were practicing for the upcoming Reed Dance. This is an annual event where all of the girls/women in Swaziland (well, not “all”….. just the virgins) come together to dance for the King so that he may choose his next wife. At the same time, everyone brings with them reeds to repair the large windbreaks that surround the King’s property. The King often times has upward of 500 off spring from his large pool of wives. This country is the last truly “Living Monarchy”, and is actually run by the King (he is not just a figure head or royal family, he runs the place). They have also had the longest living King in all history. He was said to be 103ish when he died. We missed the actual Reed Dance by a week, but they expected upwards of 40,000 women. They said it’s the largest womens gathering on the planet. The girls we watched dance also had us join them, their joy and exuberance was contagious, but the highlight was a 20 something young man from the homestead named Nelson who dressed up in the Reed Dance garb and came out and danced with us.

Our guide answered all the questions we could throw his way….. how marriage works here, how homes are built a brick at a time, how chickens live in the hanging baskets to keep them safe from predators, and how religion and tradition plays in their lives.



The area was full of agriculture. Their top crop and economic commodity is timber, I think sugar cane is number 2, and number 3 is tourism. He was sure to let us know we are an important commodity.

We were also taken to a cane fire. We are here towards the end of the cane season (ends in November) and so harvest is underway. Before the fields are harvested, they are set on fire to burn away the “brushy” parts of the cane. The fires were huge and spectacular, and we had one of the cane workers hang out with us to explain the whole procedure. I wish I could tell you his name, but it was long and complicated and I don’t think I really fully understood it, even though he repeated it many times for me.



Next, we piled back into our vans and drove a couple hours to “The Farm” where William grew up. This is a HUGE area that has, since his childhood, been parceled off and developed into part agricultural areas, and part game reserve. We stayed in the Mbuluzi Game Reserve and were given two large Range Rovers to drive around. I LOVED driving those bumpy rutty roads, and finding all the beautiful giraffe, zebras, impalas, baboons, genets, kudus, wart hogs, nyala and we even spotted a rare red diker.

They call giraffes the “dolphins of the land”. We could drive up along side them and they would give us an inquisitive look and continue eating from the tops of the trees. I could feel their deep calm and gentle nature, in their enormous and powerful bodies.

The zebras had a feeling of shy and skittery. They danced and pranced around when we found them, and didn’t stay long.

Each night ended with a beautifully catered dinner alongside the beautiful setting sun and large gentle river around a big fire. And each evening was capped by a “group heart” meditation, grounding us deep into the land and into the hearts of one another, and joining us back to our homes, to our loved ones and to our purpose.

Soon we were packing up again and heading back to the airport for a catered flight to the Game Reserve. I loved seeing the reserve from the air, and seeing the towns and villages below.

We arrived at Idube after dark and were told that we are not to walk alone at night. We were only to walk with a guide as there are large game cats around. Later along the tour, we saw a leopard right at the gate of our lodge, and the driver says he often wanders into the camp. They weren’t kidding.


Adding photos with our current internet connections is taking far too long, so I imagine I'll just send along a load later........


More later, as we are off to the Roiboos farms today. Yesterday was spent high above Cape Town as we hiked up Lions Head. AMAZING!!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Mundane to the Magnificent

Mundane would be the 28 hours on a plane. I’m sure you know the drill. Tight connections, lost cell phones, bad (bad) airplane food, cramped spaces, sleepless sleep, tiny toilets and a large expanse of ocean. ( I did create my own “yoga for cramped spaces” routine that made the trip far more comfortable)

An airport is an airport, and Johannasburg is no different. It could have been Dallas for all I know. Our first night in South Africa is at a huge resort/casino built as a replica of Vegas, complete with the winding indoor mall made to look like Venice, with murals and the blue painted sky ceiling. Seriously, it is exactly alike. (mom, you’d love it).

Where am I again?

There are 21 of us traveling in our little group. Everyone, except Rory and I, are from Australia. Everyone, except Rory and I, have been “doing the work” with William (the author/guide/workshop leader we are here to work for) for about a year or more. They all know each other rather intimately and we are a bit of a novelty. They are a lovely group.

A city tour helped me to feel a bit as if “we have arrived”. I was deeply moved by the tour of Soweto (the home township of Mandela), the recent history of Apartheid, and was surprised to learn that Desmond Tutu and Nelson Mandela lived only a few houses apart. Visiting the township and homes really brought home this painful and inspiring story of cultural change and the power of community.

A visit to the slums was sobering. It was cold and hailing when we arrived. We visited the home of Harriet, a round, shinny, grandmother who came here 17 years ago to improve things for herself and her children. Harriet and her family live in a tiny tin shack with a wood stove and barbed wire fence. There are 7 of us on the tour and we all wedge into her small living space (smaller than the master bath of the last home I lived in). She seems pleased to have guests. Her small patch of garden cannot grow edibles because of the hundreds of large rats that come around and eat the shoots as soon as they sprout. There are 25,000 people in this particular settlement. They have 66 water faucets to share, and 1,000 toilets. Their shacks are built one upon the other. This settlement is a far cry (but not a far distance) from the $300 a night rooms at the casinos. Such disparity continues to startle me.

Another 4 a.m. departure, more air travel, and now I get to see South Africa from the air – and it is rich and textured and green and beautiful.

I still do not feel as if I have arrived.

A day of driving, flat tire(s), broken car doors, boarder crossing, cold weather and stories of the surrounding area. It is spectacular. William was born and raised here, he knows the area and it’s history well. He has explained that while we started out in the lap of luxury we will gradually enter deeper and deeper into the “real” Swaziland over the course of the next few days. He seems to be leading us on a journey in such a way that we will acclimate a bit before diving “all in”. We are currently at a beautifully rustic resort. The views are stunning, the food fabulous, the workshop revealing, and the weather bitingly cold. They call this area the “Switzerland of Southern Africa” because of the beautiful mountain ranges (it’s not quite the Alps, but it is stunning). I’ve under-packed and under-dressed. It’s winter here, and I packed for fall in Ashland.

My sleep is still erratic and it’s currently 3:30 am. The alarm is set for 5:30. We’ve more touring tomorrow before heading to The Farm and safari on Friday.

Monday, August 8, 2011

South Africa... with ease


It is Monday. I am boarding a plane for Johannasburg, South Africa, on Saturday morning at 5 a.m. The trip is approximately 36 hours. And now, I’m loosing sleep over what to pack, my lack of knowledge about where I’m going, and all the loose ends I need to have tied up before I leave. Yikes!

My mantra for the trip is “ease, simplicity and joy”. And, I must say, for the most part, that is exactly what is happening!


This is a work related trip. Our company has been contracted to create a variety of DVD products, an online course, multiple promotional pieces (and more) for an author who lives (currently) in Australia, and hosts a “Soul Safari” for 20 participants in Swaziland twice a year. His name is William Whitecloud and we are also rebuilding his website. You can see a bit about him at his old website You can also click here to check out the trip specifically.


When we were first approached about the idea, I just about came out of my skin. South Africa has been on my wish list of places to visit ever since Kayla did an extensive report about the area in her 8th grade project. I’ve always wondered how I’d get there.


The initial plan for the trip was to send Ed, my brother and videographer-extrodinare. He’s really good. There was one small hitch – he was already committed to another project in Italy at that time. Then the idea continued to grow, and Ed came up with the alternative to send Rory Finney. Rory is an extraordinary photographer (and dear, dear friend). Rory’s current body of work is just exactly what this project needed. So, instead of Ed going it alone, the project is now getting Rory and Kim. Ed likes to say that it takes two of us to be one of him. He’s only teasing us, so don’t tell him, but I think he’s right.


I’ll be working on writing an online course from the body of work that William teaches, as well as logging and coordinating the material we need to capture, and Rory will be behind the still camera as well as the video camera. I’ll be helping Rory with sound and lighting and all those tech things. It’s a big project. It will be lots of work. And, it’s called a “soul safari”…….


Part of our contract with William says that we are to also experience the work for our own personal growth as well. We will be attending a workshop, exploring the wild with the animals, and touring around Swaziland.


To add to the excitement, after scheduling this part of the trip, Rory contacted a client of his who works with the collaborative Rooibos farms outside of Cape Town in South Africa. This has caused us to extend our trip by a week to travel even farther south and visit the farms. We will be creating a documentary for next years Film Festival based on the collaborative farming, and on the people of those farms. We've rented a car and will be driving from farm to farm ourselves. I'll be writing and interviewing, he'll have the cameras on.


I’m thrilled beyond words.


And so, stay tuned…. Departing Saturday.

Monday, March 14, 2011

Body Amazing

My phone just rang. It was Kayla, my daughter, telling me about a poem that she knew I would love. It was an understatement.

There are pieces that quote me

Pieces that reflect me

Parts that make me cry, and others that make me laugh

I couldn't wait to share....

Enjoy


My body is amazing

Hollie McNish – Woman’s Hour 2011

My body is amazing

I can almost hear her saying it

As she stands naked at the mirror

Hands clapping in applause to it

Naked, bold and proud

Her mouth open wide and round like

Wow

My body is amazing

She is one year’s old and loving it

Full belly sticking out, thighs like mini tyre towers

And when she looks at her reflection she always shouts aloud like

Wow.

This body is so great!

Gazing down now

I try to do the same

Ignore the plastic advert spreads

That pass me on the way

I say ‘my body is amazing’

Despite what some might say

I say my body is amazing

Despite the claims you make.

The nip and tuck and cuts and sucks that fill my walk to work each day

Enhancement ads and happiness will only come with curves this way and

if I lay in front of you today

Clothes dropped to the floor

You’d prescribe me what I could have less and what I should want more of

A tick box what could be chopped off with red pen ready hand aside your eyes deciding what to slice from lips and cheeks to bum and thighs

The lines below my eyes you say

I ought to peel or pull away

My breasts will start to sag one day

My breastfed baby there to blame

She came into the world you say

That’s great

but now behold your face

your saggy stomach, baggy eyes

Stretch mark stripes you look and sigh:

My eyes, tighten

My legs, inject

My thighs, cut back

My head, perfect

My stomach, flatten

My breasts, enhance,

Don’t smile, too much

Oh God, don’t laugh.

As you mark me like a canvas page in circled bouts of red

I feel the need to tell you you might praise this skin instead

Cos as you chat about corrections, your plucking cuts and lasers

Briefcase stuffed with time relapses, scalpol led erasers

I take up your red pen to my cheeks and mark two stripes on either side

A naked painted warrior could be a sorer site for eyes cos

I am ready for your battles now

My body’s felt the worst

No scalpol cut intense as that last damn push of birth

And I have learnt with awed amazement what my body brave can do

And now I’m marked like tribal tattoos with the tales my flesh went through

But those stripes that line my saggy stomach mark me like gold

And the folds by my eyes tell a tale just as bold

My laughter lines are deeper now because I smile twice as much

so if you palm read these first ‘wrinkles’ my life would light up.

Your official position is that smoothness is queen

but without any lines there’s no reading between them

A storybook opening

My life’s just begun and

Once upon never plays

If you cling to line one

As you try to cover the living I’ve done

As a human, a woman, and now as a mum

But your red pen can’t rub out the night’s I’ve not slept, the parts that I’ve bled or the laughter I’ve wept, the baby I held in the stomach that stretched, the breasts that got heavy so baby was fed, the parties I’ve had out, the sleep I’ve missed out on, the dinners I’ve stuffed down my throat like a python,

As you pile on the pressure to cover my life

I wonder what on earth is so wrong with your sight.

If my mind and my memory can tell you my tales

Then why can my body not tell them as well?

As our babies lie naked,

Applauding their skin

I can’t wait for their lives and their lines to begin.

Hollie McNish

Friday, January 21, 2011

Taking Time.....


THE SITUATION

In Washington , DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, this man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about 3 minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.

About 4 minutes later:

The violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.

At 6 minutes:

A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

At 10 minutes:

A 3-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.

At 45 minutes:

The musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

After 1 hour:

He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment aboutperception, taste and people's priorities.

This experiment raised several questions:

*In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?

*If so, do we stop to appreciate it?

*Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:

If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made . . ..

How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?

My hope for myself is slow down, feel, notice, experience, share and fully embrace this life I am living. What beauty did you notice today?

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

A Birthday to Remember

I woke last Friday, the morning of my 50th birthday, to my lover Paul arriving at my bedside, and sweetly slipping under the covers alongside my warm, sleepy body.

We lounged comfortably in one anothers arms, and talked about things of no particular importance. As lovers do, we kissed and caressed and shared appreciation for being in each others lives in our own unique way.

Suddenly, there was a bump on the window above my head. I jolted upright only to see a masked man wearing a cowboy hat, scarf and trench coat, and taping a “happy birthday” banner to my window. My initial startle turned to glee and my day of celebration was officially on a roll.

Paul and I wandered off to breakfast (or at least I thought that was where we were going), when instead of breakfast, Paul delivered me to the yoga studio. I entered the studio rather confused, only to find my dear friend Joy waiting for me at the inner door. It took me a moment before I realized that this was part of the plan! Paul kissed me on the check, told me to enjoy my day, and suggested that whenever asked, I simply say “yes”.

After yoga Joy asked if I’d like to grab a quick breakfast. Remembering the words of Paul I said, without hesitation, “yes”. As we walked to the car another masked man jumped out from behind the hedge. Joy and I both let out a little screech of startle. This man pretended to be menacing and told me to be quiet while he sang “You are so beautiful to me…..” and wrapped me in bright red tinsel, covered me in stickers and put bows upon my jacket. When he was complete he ran off down the railroad tracks with a bit of a skip and jump.

I giggled my way into the car and on to the restaurant. Joy suggested she drop me at the front door and she would go park the car and be right back. I said “yes”.

As I walked into the restaurant I noticed there was a large crowd waiting to be seated and thought perhaps we should go somewhere else, as I knew Joy was in a hurry and this was not known to be a speedy restaurant (albeit my favorite). After only a few steps inside the jam-packed restaurant I found Thunder (or should I say Thunder found me), dear friend #3. He reached through the crowd to grab my hand, and led me to a table for two. He had already ordered us breakfast. It took me a minute (or two) to realize the perfection of this moment, and the brilliance of the design that Thunder and I would get to have a one-on-one breakfast. As Thunder described his appreciation of our friendship, masked man #3 sauntered up to our table. He was dressed in a black wool jacket with the collar turned up high. He handed me a rose, whispered Rumi in my ear, and left me with a kiss……. I said yes.


I suddenly felt transition in the air. Thunder was putting on his jacket, had paid the bill and was ushering me out the door. We left our breakfast partly undone and stepped out the front door into the cool, crisp, wintery morning, to find a pedi-bike waiting for us (this is one of those bikes that have a little bench seat carriage on the back). Thunder helped me into the carriage, the driver covered us with a blanket, and we set off on the chilly (and wonderful) ride to town. We chatted and laughed and giggled all the way to the plaza. Thunder tapped the driver on the shoulder and said, “you can let me off here”. He kissed me on the cheek and bolted off into the park. The driver turned to me and said, “where to?”. “I have no idea, you better ask that man….” And as I pointed toward Thunder, he disappeared behind the hedge. The driver said, “Oh, I know where you’re going.” We continued on up the road.

Soon I saw another friend, Maya, standing on the sidewalk. She was here to take me for a stroll in the park (yet another one of my favorite things). As we strolled along, masked man #4 came bounding across the grass, grabbed my hand, fell to one knee, sang some-thing-or-other, and kissed me long and hard on the mouth. He completed the kiss with the smirk of a bandit and ran off down the park.

We giggled our way through the park, until, after much dawdling, Maya delivered me to masked man #5. This particular man was sitting on a park bench looking rather menacing. He remained silent, stood, reached into his pocket, and pulled out a postcard with a picture of the Beatles and on the back it said “Dear Prudence, If you want me to I will. Love, Ringo”. He asked if he could give me a ride, I said yes…..

It was a short trip to the spa, and took me but a moment to see the names of dear friends on the sign in sheet and realize there was a party going on in the hot tubs! We soaked, giggled, floated, hung out in the sauna, and Jessica washed my hair.

With the most perfect of timing, Dear Friend #5, Jacquelene, showed up, with instructions to “wisk me away to my next destination”. I said yes….

As we got into her car, she blindfolded me, put on music, and told me to relax. We drove a bit, and then a bit more, and then we arrived……

Jacquelene walked me into the house blindfolded, removed my outerwear and boots and led me into, what I knew to be, the living room. I could hear the fire, I could sense people in the room, and I could smell the aroma of yumminess.

These friends asked if I’d like to remain blindfolded, or take it off. I chose to stay blindfolded for awhile and let myself drink in the anticipation and joy in the air. I quickly ascertained what friends were in the room and felt loved and held and appreciated and seen. I spent the next four hours receiving the real royal treatment. The gave me a massage, yummie food and a hot tub.

Upon completion of the Royal Treatment, I was delivered to the actual birthday party, where all the masked men and friends of the day were gathered, all wearing masks, and all ready to receive and celebrate me.

The evening included dinner, ice cream (instead of a cake, cuz it’s my favorite) dancing, story telling and more. We sang and danced in the new year, we set our intentions and we witnessed our love and friendship.


I have never felt more loved, been more seen, been held more dearly or honored so deeply by such a beautiful group of people.

Today I feel well loved, and am in deep appreciation of this as a reflection of loving well.

My 50th year on this planet is easily summed up in the words of Paul McCartney, “and in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make”.

Thank you for giving me so much to love.


On a day when the wind is perfect,
the sail just needs to open
and the love starts.

Today is
such a day
~ Rumi

*Masked Men: 1) Ross 2)Randy 3)Cary 4)Paul 5)Stevo - THANKS!